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Swallowing problems at home: safer meals and the signs to watch
How to make meals safer when swallowing is hard: small bites, sitting upright, thin liquids, quiet mealtimes, the signs food or drink is going the wrong way, and when to call.
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After a stroke, with Parkinson’s or dementia, or simply with age, swallowing can get harder. When food or drink goes the wrong way it can cause choking or pneumonia. A few mealtime habits make eating safer, and a speech therapist can tailor them to the person.
Small bites, one at a time
Take small bites, less than 1 teaspoon of food per bite.1 Chew well and swallow before the next bite.1 If one side of the face or mouth is weaker, chew on the stronger side.1
Sit up straight, and stay up
Sit as straight as possible to eat, and stay upright for 30 to 45 minutes after eating.1
Be careful with liquids
Don’t mix solid food and liquid in the same bite, and don’t wash food down with sips unless the speech or swallowing therapist says it’s okay.1 Check with the provider or therapist before drinking thin liquids like water; they may recommend thickened liquids.1
Keep mealtimes calm
Keep meals relaxed, and don’t talk and swallow at the same time.1 Family can help by not talking to the person while they eat or drink, and by gently reminding them to finish swallowing.1
Signs food is going the wrong way
Watch for coughing or choking during or after eating, a gurgly voice or throat sounds, clearing the throat after drinking, food coming back up, hiccups after swallowing, chest discomfort, slow eating and weight loss.1
When to call
Call the provider for a cough, fever or shortness of breath, weight loss, or swallowing that’s getting worse.1 If someone is choking and can’t breathe, call 911. A home health speech therapist can test swallowing at home and set up a safe eating plan.
Questions families ask
How big should each bite be?
Less than 1 teaspoon, swallowed fully before the next.1
Is water safe?
Ask the provider or therapist first; thin liquids may need to be thickened.1
How long should Mom sit up after meals?
Thirty to 45 minutes.1
Sources
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- MedlinePlus, “Swallowing problems,” National Library of Medicine, reviewed April 27, 2026. medlineplus.gov (opens in a new tab)
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